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hey this is Leo for actualised org and in this video I'm gonna show you how to make a girl squirt warning this video was extremely sexually explicit alright let's talk about how to make a girl squirt this is such a passionate topic for me I love to do this I love to have girls squirt for me is one of my favorite things as a guy you should love this as well if you haven't made a girl squirt in your life before then you're missing out on so much I can't even explain it to you words cannot describe the beauty of this thing that I'm about to show you alright so how do you make a girl squirt and what do we mean by squirt squirting means that she's gonna have an explosive orgasm where she's gonna ejaculate and she's gonna squirt her juices out all over the place now this can be light squirting or it can be extremely heavy squirting this will depend on the girl and this will depend on the mood that you set and how well you execute this this whole procedure so in this video I'm going to give you the technique and I'm also going to tell you the do's and don'ts for making this process work so what I'm about to show you is a technique a technique that you're going to do with your fingers but I don't want you to focus so much on the finger technique what I want you to focus more on is the mindset that's coming here right it's the emotions that you're putting into it because the critical factor that decides between whether a girl will or will not squirt for you is not the fingering technique that you use what's more important is how you make her feel and that you make her feel totally safe and secure and relaxed and open to you if you can get her to surrender to you and get her to release all her tension and get her to overcome any kind of psychological sexual hang-ups that she has because girls are very conditioned from a very early age with negative images about sex and so even though they love sex they've also got this conditioning put upon them that tells them that sex is bad and dirty and evil and that it's dangerous and that it shouldn't be openly enjoyed and it shouldn't be discussed so you got to break down that barrier and you got to make her feel very comfortable and very intimate with you to do that is what I'm going to tell you is kind of the setup to this whole thing so it's not so much about the fingering it's more about the setup if you get the setup right then everything else will fall into place and you'll get the fingering right it's not that difficult ok so what is the best way to do this first of all what kind of girl should this be done with well this should be done with your girlfriend a girl that you've had sex with already multiple times so I'd say if you haven't had sex with a girl 5 or 10 times yet then don't do don't use this technique on her because it's gonna be too much you already you you still have a lot of sexual exploration to do if you haven't had sex 5 or 10 times yet so you don't need to go and bring out the big guns yet this is the big yarn that you bring out maybe 10 times in when it's getting a little bit a little bit stale and you want to like really spice it up and show or something crazy and new do not do this with a girl that you're having sex with for the first time you're not gonna have the intimacy that's necessary and it's also going to be it's just gonna be too much and too awkward when you're having sex for the first time there's already too much awkwardness there you don't want to add this on top of it okay so those are the caveats and of course if you're married and you're still having sex in your marriage and your wife will still let you have sex with her then first of all congratulations that's a big accomplishment but second of all then this can really be a great technique to spice up your love life there all right so that is kind of who you're doing this with now as far as expectations are concerned there's a question and this is a question that I still have for myself is can every girl squirt or not our certain girls squirters and certain girls not and how do we know which ones are and which ones aren't well here's the the skinny on this I mean ultimately I don't know I'm not I'm not some sexual guru here I haven't had sex with hundreds of girls so I honestly don't know I don't have the sample sizes to know which girls can squirt and which what girls can't but from everything I researched and everything that that I understand about female psychology the trick here and the reason that you might think that your girl can't squirt or the girls you've been with in the past maybe have it squirted so you think like well only a rare number of girls squirt that's not the case the case is more as follows is that a rare number of girls will squirt naturally because they are sexually open and they feel comfortable and they're just not shy about it the rest of the girls probably 95 percent of them will not sport naturally because you haven't set it up properly you haven't made them feel comfortable enough and they feel that if they squirted that they would be embarrassed that they would make you dirty that you wouldn't like it you would find it disgusting and you would judge them for it and on top of that a lot of girls simply don't even know this about themselves so it's not like they're keeping it as a secret from you and they're not squirting for you consciously it's more that they're tensed subconsciously and so they never open themselves up as much as they could that is necessary for them to squirt so your job then is to what it's to break down this barrier of comfort and intimacy you have to become very intimate with your girl which is why our girlfriend is ideal you have to also make her very comfortable and relaxed right intimacy something you build up over a long period of time but come comfortable and relaxed like in the moment when you've got her on your bed and you're about to get into the action you got to make her feel very relaxed now the best way to do that I find is first of all have a quiet uninterrupted setting so don't be doing this at your parents house this is something that you do at your home when you've got a lot of time you set aside a chunk of two hours or something like that so that no one can disturb you all your cell phones are off and you've got the whole night to yourselves so that's the best environment to do this in and then get her very relaxed romance her get her really excited about this process and the best way to do that I find is to give her a massage right massage relaxes the whole body so you get her naked on your bed and then you go to work hopefully you know how to give girls massages it's really not hard an idiot can do it all you do is you get her naked on the bed you don't need to use any oil or anything like that that's just gonna make things messy just lay down and then you start basically putting her hands on her and rubbing her in ways that would seem pleasurable to you and obviously she's gonna react in like and she's gonna give you positive feedback for the massage that you're doing so massage her back massage her arms which on her legs a shot and massage her thighs her feet basically her entire body now as you're giving her a massage she's gonna be completely naked so the things that you want to avoid are touching any of the the private areas don't touch her nipples and don't touch her vagina leave those for later the reason you leave those for later is because it gets very excited if you go straight for the money right off the bat then that's not foreplay that's not really exciting that's just like going straight for sex so don't do that that's normal sex what I'm talking about here is you're going to do a very long and extended romance session a lot of foreplay is gonna go on here and what you're really gonna do is do the massage give her a good long twenty to thirty minute massage where you're just focusing on give her kind of like a platonic massage so even though she's naked you're not really focusing on sex you're just like massaging her and maybe you're like kissing her body in different places you can kiss her all over her body get her really excited but also like really iron out the kinks you know iron out all those notches in her in her back relax all her muscles so that she's feeling that she's like kind of floating on clouds that's what you want she's like a really nice buzz from having a deep massage so give her that that will relax her when she's that relaxed all her insecurities gonna fly out the window and kind of the opportunities gonna open for you to tell her what you want her to do and she's gonna follow it without too much thinking and analyzing you don't want her doing that so after you do the massage then what you want to do is you want to build up a little bit of intimacy right in the moment right look her in the eyes tell her you love her if you do love her and you are on that kind of basis then tell her that and be very sweet and like intimate with her however you do that I'm not gonna get into the details of that that's gonna be too long I'll have other videos that will tell you how to do like dirty talk and intimate talk but build up that intimacy right in the moment so she feels like this is something special it's more than just like a quickie sex session this is something like special that you two are doing that only you to our sharing so build it up with her like that then what you're gonna move on to is you're gonna move on to telling her that you love when she squirts you have to plant the seed in her mind the squirting is something that gets you really really excited because she wants to make you happy so if she thinks that you love squirting then she's gonna be much more receptive to squirt for you because if you've never talked about it with her she's gonna assume that you don't like it she's gonna assume that it's disgusting she's gonna assume that this is something that would freak you out if it happened it would catch you by surprise so she's gonna hold it back even if if she could squirt she wouldn't do it for you because kind of as a courtesy she doesn't want to take you by surprise so what you want to tell her is that you actually love this and that the hardest thing for you is to see a girl squirt and to see your a girl squirt right this is like your dream come true tell that to her build that up so then she's like okay he's the kind of guy he was cool with it like he's the kind of man who was a comfortable sexuality he's not gonna get freaked out and he's not gonna judge me for squirting alright so tell her that you got it that's really really important so once you got that out of the way then what you gotta tell her is that you're gonna be guiding her see the other big problem is that if you just tell a girl that hey I want you to squirt for me if you just tell her that that's putting a lot of responsibility on her it's kind of like a girl telling you hey I want you to come for me right now you know if you ever had a girl tell you that then that has the exact opposite effect what that does it makes you self-conscious puts you in your head and then actually you can't come when someone tells you to come it's like reverse psychology so in this situation it's kind of the same thing don't put the burden on her tell her that you're taking the burden off of her and the way you do that is you tell him that you are guiding her right you're leading her into something adventurous and something new so you tell her that we're gonna explore your body and you tell her that you want to make her squirt and you tell her that it's okay if she doesn't that you're not expecting anything and that you guys are gonna have a great time no matter what but then you tell her that she is gonna obey you tonight that you are leading and she is following and she's gonna obey every one of your commands all right set it up like that when you've got that kind of frame set that's perfect she's gonna love it women love to surrender surrender themselves to like a strong man especially in the bedroom so this-this-this hits on so many levels this gives you kudo points on so many so many levels in bedroom so have that kind of commanding authority to the directions that you give her also be confident about in yourself you have to believe that she will squirt if you don't believe it and you do it half-assed and you are very wofully about it and you kind of look to her to do all the work it's never gonna happen you have to come in there with confidence so even if you are not confident on the inside use the old fake it till you make it trick you know you just gotta like push through and tell yourself that if you're confident on the outside then the confidence on the inside will match up to it so you just go through and you make it happen okay and the final point that you have to tell her is you have to explicitly tell her that she has to push when she comes this is this is the this is the key here and this is the reason that women do not squirt it's because they have they have a concern right the concern is that their squirt will be confused with pee so they think that if they're squirting they think that they're peeing and really they're two totally different things and you need to explain this to her because otherwise she's gonna be self-conscious about it and what you need to tell her is you need to tell her to push so literally she has to use her vaginal muscles to push out the juices now that's not gonna happen if she's holding back and a lot of times she'll be holding back because she's afraid that well if she lets go then she's gonna pee all over you and of course she doesn't want to pee all over her man so she is gonna be very conscious self-conscious about that so what you tell her as you tell her baby look it's not pee when you're [ __ ] and you're pushing all your juices out that's exactly what I want from you that's not peeing you can't possibly pee when you're doing that what you're doing is you're [ __ ] and that's what I want that's beautiful to me alright so you tell her that and you tell her I'm gonna tell you to push when you're coming and I want you to push everything out of you I want to push all the juices out if you don't tell her this then it's not going to happen unlikely it's gonna happen so this is a very critical component that many guys will miss so once you explain that to her and you get her to comply and agree with that then you're you're all good to go at this point it's all about the technique now what you got to do is you got to get your fingers inside of her and you got to do the hard to maker squirt and that is something that I'm going to show you right now all right so now what I'm going to do is I'm going to show you the actual fingering technique that you're gonna use to make your squirt so here's the setup the way you can set it up is you're gonna lie her on the bed and she's gonna be on her back with her legs spread and open you already given her massage she's completely relaxed she's really really excited for you she's super horny and super wet already and you haven't even done anything with her yet all right put a pillow under her head to give her some support now the way you're gonna position yourself is we gonna lay up right next to her so your side is gonna be next to her side your head is gonna be next to her head and then your arm is gonna be between her legs right your arm is gonna reach down between her legs you're lying next to her as you're lying next to her get as close as you can to her almost like you're hugging her and you're holding her on your arms that's really nice because gonna build up a lot of intimacy and it's also going to give you some leverage and stability because you want to hold on to her as you're doing this this action with your hand and your fingers so once you've got that positioned then here's how it works so pretend that her legs are pointing off so one leg is pointing this way and one leg is pointing this way right this means that this is her vagina here and then her head is down that way and so is yours so your fingers now this is what's gonna happen you're gonna take your middle finger and you're gonna take your index finger or I mean I'm sorry your a ring finger you're gonna put these two together like this and this is what you're going to put inside of her so this goes inside her vagina like this this right here is the upper wall of her vagina so if you would turn it around this is kind of where the [ __ ] would be now this is the inside of it you put your fingers in like this and now you've got the right position the g-spot is going to be located right here it's not that deep in it's on the upper wall of the vagina and it's about an inch or so you can feel it it's got a slightly different texture to it than the rest of the vagina so this is the g-spot area now what I like to do don't put your fingers directly on the g-spot put your fingers in as deep as you can the deeper the better and what you're really going to be doing is you're going to be stimulating that g-spot but you're gonna be doing it with this part of your finger here not with the tips of your fingers or the pad of the fingers but really here lower all right so now you've got this situation going like this now look there's different motions that you can do and you don't want to go in there sure pumping right away if you go in there start pumping right away like a madman then you're not doing it right you want to build it up slowly so you can finger her and play around with her and do all that stuff but when you're really ready to make her score it then this is what you do your fingers are all the way inside and they're pressed all the way up against the back wall like this now what you're gonna start to do is you're gonna start to do a kind of a motion like this where you're just pressing look what I'm doing see I'm pressing I'm pressing in on the upper wall and then I'm releasing so press and release press release and you want to start about at this rate where it's kind of slow and you're getting her even more and more and more excited in order to make her squirt you're gonna be doing a pretty aggressive move with your hand in order to do that she has to be extremely extremely wet like sopping wet you have to hear the wetness if you do not hear that then there's not enough lubrication in there and you might cause a friction and some problems and it might lead to pain but if she's really really excited in wet and you've done everything like I told you then everything's gonna be fine you don't need to worry about hurting her in any way so now it's like this and you're pumping away and you're getting her closer and closer to orgasm and you're gonna see she's gonna be moaning and she's gonna be calling your name out and she's gonna be talking dirty to you and you can do that back to her as you're doing this so as you're doing this you can look her in the eyes because your faces will be close to each other you can kiss her you can caress her in other ways but this hand is gonna be doing this kind of pumping action and slowly over a minute or two you want to ramp that up and you just want to ramp the speed up notice I'm not going in and out nor am i doing kind of a curling motion nor am I going like this what I'm doing is I'm doing a pump kind of just a push on the upper wall so that's perfect keep doing this kind of pump action and make it faster and faster and faster as you're doing this faster and faster and faster notice that right now I'm just using my fingers here and I'm using a little bit of my my arm but I'm not using like I'm not using this part of my arm I'm just using my hand so that's how it starts but then as you see and she's getting more and more excited and she's getting closer and closer to orgasm then you want to you're gonna want to go faster and you want to go harder so faster and harder and to go faster and harder what's gonna happen is that look your whole hand is gonna start moving back and forth you see what's happening here not just a pump but now back and forth is happening this is ideal what you want is you want to do this kind of pumping action you can go faster and faster and faster like this and this is going to strain your hand a lot so it's good if you build up your hand and you have to use your dominant hand so if you're right-handed use your right hand if you're left-handed use your left hand I literally cannot do this with my left hand it's not strong enough even my right hand will start to cramp because you need to do this consistently and with a lot of pressure and you can't let up so as she's coming closer and closer to orgasm you got to really put a lot of pressure into it like this now here's the trick you know that your girl sends out signals when she's getting close to come so you know your girl's signals and you've got a kind of an intuition for it and you usually know about 60 to 30 seconds in that she's about to come she's getting close she'll be telling you or she'll be moaning in a certain way or she'll be moving her hips and her body in a certain way where you just know it's gonna happen so when you're getting to that point that's the critical point you have to look in her eyes and you have to really establish a deep intimate connection with her and you have to tell her that you want her to squirt so you say something like baby I want you to score for me right or you can ask her a question like baby do you want to squirt for me right now and as she's getting closer she's gonna say of course yes and she's gonna be moaning and that's perfect that's right where you want her now as you're doing this you have the whole point is that you're setting this up so that in the last 10 - 5 seconds of this wild orgasm that she's gonna have is you're gonna be telling her to squirt and to push for you right you literally have to say these words baby squirt squirt for me but that's not enough you also have to tell her push right push is telling her exactly what to do with her with her muscles down there so that she can release the juices so you have to be telling her this especially in the last 10 - 5 seconds as she's about to orgasm if you do that then she gonna be following your commands if you just expect her to squirt for you automatically or you expect you to tell her just hey baby squirt and then not give her any further instructions then she might not know what to do so you have to really tell her to push time at such that you're telling this to her in the last 10 seconds so as she's about to come tell her to push and even if you kind of miss it and she's already coming you notice that she's just had an orgasm a second ago tell her to push anyways because her orgasm is gonna be long it can be extended for a whole minute or even more so if you're doing this right you've got quite a good window there to make sure that you tell her what you need to be telling her so as soon as she has her orgasm if you missed it tell her to start pushing and she will now here is how it's gonna look all right this is kind of the demo you have to go really fast at this point it's gonna get really sloppy and really while it and it's gonna be like really really aggressive [Applause] like that right so that's about the speed and the strength that you're going at at the very very end when she's gonna start squirting for you so as she has her orgasm the critical thing to also remember of course you're telling her that you love her you're telling her that she's squirting for you you're telling her to push and you keep doing the pumping so she's gonna have her wild orgasm and you keep doing the pumping and you tell her to keep coming keep coming keep coming try to extend that orgasm for as long as you can what's beautiful about women is that they can they can basically come forever it's amazing what you can do with a woman so you keep you keep doing this even after she's coming because her orgasm is gonna be extended and you don't want to just cut it off as soon as it starts you want to keep going through that motion you can let up on it you don't need to beat that violent anymore you can kind of let up on it and go a little bit easier although you can also go violent for a long long long time and you can string together multiple orgasms however squirt multiple times for you so you can really take this to advanced levels but let's start you off with something simple get her to squirt once and have one nice strong orgasm there and just kind of keep keep doing this motion until you bring her down and she's really happy she's had her full orgasm she's come down a little bit from it then you can you can get out and move on to other things but that's basically the process right as you can tell I'm a little winded right off of myself right now from just demonstrating this that's because it does take energy it will take the wind out of you and your arm will cramp up and your arm will hurt so you have to go go to the gym flex that flex that bicep and flex flex your forearms and work on your fingers so that you're really strong in that department but ultimately what happens is that if you do this and you make her squirt then you are gonna have a blast she's gonna have an even bigger blast she's gonna love you so much it's insane the amount of intimacy that this builds up is ridiculous because most girls have never experienced this in their life so we've been they're gonna see you as the the man who is showing her how to be adventurous in the bedroom and to a girl that's one of the most amazing things ever you're helping her learn about her sexuality you're helping her expand her understanding of her sexuality you're helping her drop all the hang-ups that she has about psycho sexuality that she's gotten since she was a girl from all the social conditioning so that's a really really good thing when you can do this literally she might get hooked on you like crack cocaine because you were gonna build up so much intimacy you're gonna make her [ __ ] in such a way that she's never come in her entire life she probably doesn't even know that she has this in her that she has this capability but when you bring this out man your relationship is gonna be so much stronger you guys have so much more fun and then that will open the doors to all sorts of other crazy sexual exploration a YouTube can do in the future so go ahead and try this out make sure you do it with your girlfriend not with a first-time girl and and man report back your report back your results all right so this is Leo this is how to make a girl squirt go ahead and post me your comments down below tell me what you think tell me about your experiences be honest I'm open about it I don't care I don't judge and then of course go ahead and like this if you liked it share it 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